miercuri, 2 februarie 2011

Dangers in home part III

# Getting used to having servants has created dependency and negative character traits




Some women may include having a servant as a condition in their marriage contract; others may plan on bringing their family's servant with them when they get married. Thus our daughters have lost ability to deal independently with anything in the home, no matter how small it is.



When women brought servants into their homes, they start to have alot of free time and do not know what to do with it. So some women begin to sleep a lot, and some are never home because they are always going to gatherings where they gossip and backbite and waste their time. The result will be regret on The Day of Resurrection.



#Harm comes to the members of the family n different ways, for example:



* Witchcraft and magic, which can cause separation of husband and wife, or cause physical harm.





* Damage to the family's reputation. How many decent homes have been turned into dens of immorality and corruption in the absence of their owners. You must surely have heard of female servants who receive men when the homeowners are absent.





# The freedom of men ( those who fear Allah) within their own homes is restricted,



* As is also the case for those who try to call their families to put things in order.





# Women end up being alone with drivers



* In the house or car, and women do not refrain from going out wearing adornments and perfume in front of their drivers. They act as if he is one of their mahrams or even closer, and because they go out with them so often and talk to them so much, the psychological barrier is broken down and so forbidden things are done. The frequency of such incidents in our society demonstrates to those who have the eyes to see just how serious the matter is.





# Bringing servants and drivers from all sorts of kafir nations clearly goes against the Prophets specific orders that kuffar (disbelievers) should not be allowed into the Arabian Peninsula.



* There is absolutely no need to do this, as it is possible to bring Muslims in if there is a need to workers. Added to this is the fact that employing kafirs strengthens the economies of kafir nations, as the employees transfer their salaries to their homelands, whereas Muslims should have priority in this matter. By mixing so much with these kuffar, Muslims can no longer see the difference, which gradually destroys the concept of alwala' wa'l-bara (loyalty and alegiance vs. enmity and disavowal) in their minds. Added to this is the ugly role played by some agency owners who have no fear of Allah, who will tell you that there are no Muslims employees. Or they may engage in deceit and trickery, so that after a driver or the maid servant described as a Muslim in official papers, arrive, the head of the household discovers that this is a lie, or the new employee may be playing a role that started in his country of origin, where the agency taught him a few Islamic words so that he can pose as a Muslim in front of the family that employs him.